Maple Avenue
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Maple Avenue middle school

515 Maple Avenue
Saratoga Springs,
New York, 12866


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518-587-4551

The Mapletogian is the school newspaper of Maple Avenue Middle School. It is a monthly publication that is designed by kids for kids and their families. If you have any information that you would like to see in the newspaper or you have any questions, feel free to mail to: The Mapletogian, c/o Maple Avenue Middle School, 515 Maple Avenue, Saratoga Springs, NY 12866

 

The Mapletogian

September 2008

Volume 18   Number 1


Safe online

The Internet can be an exciting experience that broadens your child’s world. Unfortunately, it can be dangerous too. Keep your child safe with these ground rules:

1. Put the computer in plain view (family room or kitchen) so you can monitor your child while she’s online. Post Internet rules nearby. Example: Use only after homework is done, only when a parent is home, and no more than 30 minutes a day.

2. Make sure your middle grader never posts pictures of herself online or gives out her name, age, address, phone number, city, school, or any other personal information. Also, insist that she never arrange a meeting with someone she meets onmthe Internet.

3. Keep an eye on chat rooms by asking your child what she and her friends are talking about. Encourage her to tell you if something online makes her uncomfortable, and let her know not to respond to online bullying or rude messages. If she receives inappropriate messages, report them to your online provider — and tell her you are doing so.


 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

The Mapletogian

October 2008

Volume 18   Number 2


Happy Halloween!!


 

 

Maple Avenue Middle School Participates In
Red Ribbon Week

October 22-30, 2008
 

The Story Behind the Symbol

Enrique (Kiki) CamarenaEnrique "Kiki" Camarena grew up in a dirt-floored house with hopes and dreams of making a  difference. 

Camarena worked his way through college, served in the Marines and became a police officer. When he decided to join the U.S. Drug Enforcement Administration, his mother tried to talk him out it.  "I can't not do this," he told her. "I'm only one person, but I want to make a difference." 

The DEA sent Camarena to work undercover in Mexico investigating a major drug cartel believed to include officers in the Mexican army, police and government. On Feb. 7, 1985, the 37-year-old Camarena left his office to meet his wife for lunch.  Five men appeared at the agent's side and shoved him in a car. One month later, Camarena's body was found in a shallow grave. He had been tortured to death. 

In honor of Camarena's memory and his battle against illegal drugs, friends and neighbors began to wear red badges of satin. Parents, sick of the destruction of alcohol and other drugs, had begun forming coalitions. Some of these new coalitions took Camarena as their model and embraced his belief that one person can make a difference. These coalitions also adopted the symbol of Camarena's memory,  the red ribbon. 

The National Family Partnership organized the first Nationwide Red Ribbon Campaign in 1988. Since that time, the campaign has reached millions of U.S. children.

In 1997, the Texas Commission on Alcohol and Drug Abuse began committing resources to ensure the continuation of the Red Ribbon Campaign in Texas, as well as the hopes and beliefs behind this grassroots effort to protect children from the dangers of alcohol and other drugs. 

The History of Halloween

        The history of Halloween is very intriguing and you will find it is much different from the Halloween we know today.

          The word Halloween comes from “All Hallows Eve” a Christian Church holiday on November 1st.  It does no longer exist.

          The holiday Halloween, however, began in Celtic Ireland, in the Fifth Century BC. The holiday was called Samhain and was the Celtic New Year.

          A Celtic story says that day, October 31st; the people that died that past year came to search for humans to possess. On that day time stood still, so that the dead could come back to the world.

          That night, to stop the spirits, villagers dressed up in scary ghoul costumes, and paraded around the town, hoping to scare the evil spirits away.

          Some Celts would burn people at stake who they thought were possessed!

          The Romans took the Celts ideas about Halloween as their own in the 1st century AD. It was destroyed then and taken over by other Roman ideas. It also became more ceremonial, for people no longer believed in the “Spirit World”. Irish immigrants brought this holiday to America.

          Trick-or-treating started in England. On November 2nd, Christians would walk around their village, begging for mini “cakes”. They would then prayer for the lives of the souls taken the past year and for their safe passage to heaven.  They only prayed for the number of cakes they had gotten. Immigrants brought this to America and it was combined with the other Halloween and made into what we know today.

          Halloween was very different when it started; now it is one of the most popular holidays in the U.S.  Without those immigrants from England and Ireland, Halloween might not be what it is today, a popular, spooky holiday!


America's Rain Forests  A Distance Learning Adventure
http://rainforests.pwnet.org/

Take your students on a distance learning adventure to tropical and temperate rain forests during a live web cast and broadcast on October 14. Join experts on location in Puerto Rico and Alaska to learn about these important ecosystems, predator-prey relationships, the endangered Puerto Rican parrot, why rain forests are important, and the native cultures of Puerto Rico and Alaska. You can register through the site. 

 

 



 

 

 

 

 

The Mapletogian

November 2009

Volume 19 Number 3

 


CREATE A STATE MAP
http://members.aol.com/lisajg5222/maps/cstate.html

 Students will carefully follow directions to create their own state with this printable student worksheet on mapping skills.


 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

The Mapletogian

December 2008

Volume 18    Number 4

TEACHER AND STUDENT HELPERS

INTERACTIVE WEEKLY CALENDAR
http://www.printfree.com/Calendar_
Custom_Monthly/weeklyin.htm

 Both you and your students will appreciate this interactive weekly calendar. Put in your parameters for each day, then submit to print it out.


MULTIPLICATION CHART
http://www.brainegames.com/freepdfs/
MultiplicationBlankTble.pdf

http://www.brainegames.com/freepdfs/12timestable.pdf
Both blank and filled multiplication charts are available to download here, with multiplication up to twelve.


PLACE VALUE PUZZLER
http://www.funbrain.com/tens/index.html

Choose from four different levels to correctly identify either place value (up to ten thousands one way, ten thousandths to the right of the decimal), or round off to the nearest hundredth, tenth, etc. in this interactive learning game.


Money myth

Does your child think money grows on trees? To help him appreciate the value of a dollar, have him divide the price of something he wants by how much he would earn at a minimum wage job. Example: At $5.15 an hour, a $45 baseball mitt would mean almost 9 hours of work.




 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

The Mapletogian

January  2009

Volume 18  Number 5

HAPPY NEW YEAR!!

 

 

January 2009
Sunday Monday Tuesday Wednesday Thursday Friday Saturday
       

New Year's Day

Betsy Ross born, 1752

Paul Revere born, 1735.

Ellis Island Opened, 1892

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Isaac Asimov, Astronomer, born, 1920

Crosby Bonsall

Boo Boo Bear's Birthday (Yogi the Bear's little buddy)

2

Trivia Day

Isaac Newton born, 1643

Jakob Grimm born, 1785.

Louis Braille born, 1809.

4

First Woman Governor Inaugurated 1925 inauguration of Nellie Ross as Wyoming's Governor.

George Washington Carver Recognition Day

National Bird Day

5

Bean Day

Poet Carl Sandburg born, 1878

Epiphany

Sherlock Holmes

6

First U.S. Presidential Election held, 1789

Old Rock Day

7

Elvis Presley born, 1935

8

Clyde Robert Bulla

1st U.S. Balloon Flight, 1793

National Apricot Day

National Static Electricity Day

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10

Secret Pal Day

Milk Day Milk delivered in bottles for the first time, 1878.

Amelia Earhart, adventurer, flew solo across the Pacific Ocean, 1935

11

Work Harder Day

Author Jack London born, 1876

12

Poetry Break Day

Rubber Duckie's Birthday Sesame Street Character.

Author Horatio Alger, born, 1832

Michael Bond

13

Make Your Dreams Come True Day

National Dress Up Your Pet Day

The Revolutionary War ended, 1784

14

First Super Bowl Played in 1967. Green Bay (35) defeated Kansas City (10).

Hat Day The first top hat was worn.

15

Prohibition began in 1920

National Nothing Day

16

Benjamin Franklin born, 1706

Shari Lewis born, 1934

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Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. Day Born in 1929. Observed Third Monday in January.

Artist Paul Cezanne born, 1839

Popcorn Day

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Inauguration Day (Every 4 years - 2009, 2013)

Cheese Day

First traffic rules published, 1900

20

National Hugging Day

First flight of the Supersonic Concorde, 1976

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Measure Your Feet Day

National Handwriting Day

National Pie Day

23

Eskimo Pie Patented by Christian Nelson in 1922.

Gold Discovered in California At Sutter's Mill in 1848 by John Marshall

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Opposite Day

First Winter Olympics held, 1924

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26

Lewis Carroll

National Geographic Society Founded, 1888

Julius Lester

27

Jackson Pollock, Artist, born in 1912

Ernie's Birthday Sesame Street Character.

National Kazoo Day

28

Baseball Hall of Fame established, 1936

National Puzzle Day

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The Mapletogian

February  2009

Volume 18   Number 6

Chores that score

Turn household chores into a

friendly competition by assigning

points to each duty. Example:

Unloading the dishwasher equals three points; taking out trash is worth five. Track family members’ progress. Each week’s high scorer

gets a free pass from chores for one day the following week.

Science projects

Choosing a science fair project early will give your middle grader lots of time to conduct his experiment and prepare a presentation. He might make

a potato battery or explore how fast goldfish breathe. Suggest that he look for ideas online (try www.freescience fairproject.com) or at the library (read A+ Science Fair Projects by Janice VanCleave).

Impulse control

Does your child think before she

acts? Tell her to trust her instincts: if an impulse feels wrong, it probably is. Help her choose a “stop and think”

signal. She might close her eyes

briefly or touch her thumb to her

finger while she asks herself, “Should I really share Megan’s secret?”

Worth quoting

“You cannot do all the good the

world needs, but the world needs all the good you can do.”

Anonymous

Just for fun

Q: How does a biologist like to

communicate?

A: With a cell phone.

 

Help for

underachievers

You think your middle grader could do better in school if she would just apply herself. How do you know if she’s underachieving— and if so, what can you do? Your child may be an underachiever if her teachers say she doesn’t try, her grades

reflect missing or incomplete work, or she doesn’t talk about school except to complain. Try these suggestions:

 

n Ask your youngster why she isn’t doing her best. Maybe the

work is too hard or too easy, or she doesn’t see how it relates to “real life.”

n Work on solutions. Meet with her counselor about switching to lower or higher classes. Share your own experiences (math skills help you make smart

buying decisions; science classes led to your career as a nurse).

n Praise progress. Small rewards, such as a night of bowling or a sleepover with

friends, may encourage your child. Let her know that her hard work will pay off now and in the future.

Homework: Whose work?

Like an athlete or a musician, a student must practice her skills to stay sharp. Homework lets your child do just that, and it also shows teachers what she can do on her own. So where do parents come in? Keep roles clear with these tips for you and your middle schooler.

Parents:

Support your child by quizzing her on test material or listening to her ideas for papers.

Check daily to see that homework is complete. Read comments on graded work so you know how your middle grader is doing.

When your youngster is frustrated, suggest that she check her notes or textbook, call a classmate, or take a break. If she struggles with homework on a regular basis, get in touch with her teachers.

Take your middle schooler shopping for tools and supplies (graph paper, calculator, highlighters, rulers). When she has research to do, make sure she can get to the library.

Students:

Study every day. If you don’t have any homework, work on long-term assignments or review your notes.

Remember to take home all the materials you need (homework assignments, textbooks, worksheets).

If you miss or lose an assignment, call your school’s homework hotline or a classmate, or check the teacher’s Web site. Ask your teachers for help when you need it. Try approaching them between classes or before or after school.

Before beginning an assignment, read the directions carefully so you understand what to do. Write neatly, and turn everything in on time.

Ways to go green

To make a big impact on the environment, think small! Try these simple ideas to become an earth-friendly family and teach your child to respect the planet:

1. Save landfill space. Give unneeded household items (toys, furniture, books) and electronics (old computers, cell phones) away through www.freecycle.org. Or take items to donation sites at your community center or the Salvation Army.

2. Reduce pollution by combining car trips. Walk, bike, or take public transportation when possible.

3. Keep canvas tote bags in your car, and use them instead of plastic or paper bags when you shop.

4. Conserve power. Unplug chargers for cell phones and iPods when they’re not in use. Turn off and unplug small

appliances and computers overnight—energy is spent even when they’re off.

 

Connected to school

I went back to work full-time when my son started middle school. At first, I wasn’t sure I could still volunteer as I’d done when I stayed home. I called the school to ask about opportunities for working

parents. The office secretary had quite a few suggestions.

She said some parents serve on a welcome committee for new

students, calling families at night to offer information and answer questions. Others work at the snack bar during home games,

chaperone school dances, or help advisors with clubs and after-school activities. I thought the snack

bar and welcome committee ideas sounded good for my new schedule, so I volunteered for both. I’ve gotten to know more families,

and I’m glad I can still be an active part of my child’s school.

 



 


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The Mapletogian

March 2009

Volume 18   Number 7

Short Stops

Goodbye, bad habits Middle schoolers may start biting their nails or chewing on pencils

without realizing it. These habits can be triggered by stress or boredom. Suggest that your child offer herself an incentive to quit. For instance, if she doesn’t bite her nails for two weeks, she might do home manicures with a friend.

Standardized tests

It’s important that all students be in school for standardized tests. Put the dates on your calendar so you don’t schedule appointments for your child that week. If he’s sick, check on makeup days. Also, be sure he

gets a good night’s sleep and a

healthy breakfast for test day (and every day!).

Think summer

Now is a good time to start thinking about summer plans. Encourage our child to list possibilities. She might come up with programs to attend, opportunities for volunteering,

or places to visit. The brainstorming will get her thinking—and give her productive ways to spend her days.

Worth quoting

“Teachers open the door. You enter by yourself.”

Chinese proverb

 

Kindness: It’s contagious

While getting off the school bus, Ethan sees Abby trip and drop her books. He’s in a hurry to get home, but he stops and helps her gather her belongings. Ethan performed a random act of kindness—he did something thoughtful for another person just to be nice. Encourage your child to be kind with these ideas.

Model kind acts. Let your youngster see you hold the door for

someone or motion another driver ahead of you in traffic. You might

comment on how being considerate made you feel: “That woman

was in a hurry. I’m glad we could help.” Chances are, your child will

want to feel that way, too.

Plan kind acts. Ask your middle grader to name 10 ways to show kindness, or have the whole family think of ideas together. Then, let everyone choose one to try. Examples: Weed a neighbor’s flower beds, take treats to animals in a shelter, share CDs with friends.

Recognize kind acts. Attach an envelope to your refrigerator or bulletin board. When someone sees another family member act kindly, he can write a note about it (“Bryan helped Susie with her math homework”). Pull out the notes and read them aloud at dinner or during family meetings.

 

Family fun

What’s more difficult as kids get older, but more important than ever? Spending time together as a family! Find ways to create strong family ties — and have fun at the same time — with these ideas.

Throw a party
Once a month, decorate the house with balloons and pictures from a school play, baseball game, or band concert. Praise each person for what they’ve accomplished: “Barry learned to skateboard,” or “Melissa learned a new dance routine.”

Be creative
Turn everyday family moments into special family time. For example, on your next trip to the grocery store, split into teams (one parent and child per team). Divide the food list in half, and see who finishes first. Your children will remember these times for what they are: a fun way to be together.

Invite friends
Middle graders love to have their friends around. Include one or two in your family time (picnic, trip to the museum), and your child will be more excited about joining in. As a bonus, you’ll get to see how your youngster acts with friends and what they talk about.

 

What’s your style?

Your child is studying Vikings. When asked to describe their daily lives, would she rather write about the topic, talk about it, or act out a skit? The answer is an indicator of your youngster’s “learning style”—the way she learns best. Share these suggestions to help her make the most of

her strengths.

1. Visual (learns by seeing)

Characteristics: Understands lessons better when material is written down. Takes good notes and likes sitting up front.

 

Study tips: Color-code notes (write dates in red and people’s names in blue, for instance). Make outlines and flash cards. Draw graphs and charts.

2. Auditory (learns by hearing)

Characteristics: Remembers what the teacher says. May talk while writing.

Study tips: Read notes out loud. Make up songs or rhymes to remember facts and formulas. Explain ideas to a parent or friend.

3. Kinesthetic (learns by doing)

Characteristics: May doodle in class. Enjoys hands-on projects (science experiments, arts and crafts).

Study tips: Rewrite notes or type them on the computer. Take stretch breaks while studying. Use objects (pour water into measuring cups to explore fractions).


 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

The Mapletogian

April 2009

Volume 18   Number 8

Family meals
Want to boost your youngster’s grades while reducing the likelihood that he will drink or do drugs? Try eating together as a family. Research shows that family meals lead to parent-child connections that can reduce risky behavior and improve children’s self-esteem. Write dinnertime on your kitchen calendar so everyone knows it’s a priority.

Cell phone etiquette
Middle graders love their cell phones. Teach your child to be polite with hers by making sure she turns it off during movies and in restaurants. Also, encourage her to speak or text message only briefl y (to make plans or see what someone wants) when she’s with other people.

Cell phone safety

If your middle grader has a cell

phone, make sure he sticks with

these safety rules. He shouldn’t use

his cell phone to talk or text-message

while he’s crossing a street or biking.

Also, you can set an example for

your future driver by not using your

cell phone when you’re behind the

wheel.

Computer expert

Your child probably already knows

a lot about computers. Boost his

confidence by making him the family

computer expert. When you need to

install new software or add more

memory, ask him for help. Tip:

Encourage him to take a computer

class at school or the library to

increase his troubleshooting skills.

Spring into extracurriculars

School is more fun when kids get

involved in extracurricular activities.

From sports to the school musical,

there’s bound to be something that

your child will enjoy this season.

Suggest that she choose one or two

activities, and remind her to leave

time for homework and studying.

 

Weekend learning

Take advantage of free family time

to make learning a shared adventure.

 

Here’s how:

 

n Play board games anytime, anywhere. You can enjoy them during a picnic in the park, a campout in your backyard, or a morning at a coffeehouse. Try Mastermind, checkers, or Scrabble to practice strategy and word skills.

 

Erasing math fears

My son Carl was becoming anxious

about math. He kept saying, “I’m no

good at numbers.” I’ve always felt the

same way, and I’d say so to comfort

him. But then his test grades

started dropping, and I approached his teacher for advice. It turns out that

expressing doubt about my own math

skills was giving him more reason to feel he couldn’t do well in math. Instead, Mrs. Coleman said, I should say things like, “I use math more often than I realized,” or, “Look—my checkbook balanced to the penny!” She also suggested that I remind Carl of the times he has succeeded with math, like when he memorized multiplication tables or mastered

square roots. Now I try to stay positive.

And guess what? Carl and I have decided we’re both better with numbers than we thought.

 

Recycling by Maddison Feeley

Do you have old papers you want to get rid of?  Are your draws stuffed with old tests and homework?  Feel the need to throw it all out?  STOP RIGHT THERE!!!!!!  Why throw out your old papers when you can do something better with them?  By recycling you get rid of your old papers, and help save the environment. 

      During 8th period on Wednesdays the recycling is collected and brought to the recycling center.  The old papers are turned into new papers which can be used as new homework and tests (not that we need any more of those).  I interviewed Veronica Zabala about her opinion on recycling.  “I’m glad that our school recycles and I think more schools should take action in recycling too.” says Veronica.  “We need to use both sides of papers and use old homework for scrap papers.”

          I think Veronica is right.  I know most people try hard to make a difference in the environment, but if we truly want to keep the environment safe, everyone needs to participate.  So don’t just recycle at school, recycle at home, on vacation, or anywhere!!!

 

 

Musical Smarts

                                                     By Veronica Zabala   

 Are you not happy with your grades? Have you tried every after school and in-school help you can get? Well, here’s another solution.

        Studies have shown that children, who play a musical instrument, usually have better academic grades. Don’t believe me? Here’s an example. I happen to play the clarinet in school and piano outside of school. In elementary school, I had a band lesson once a week. I didn’t play the clarinet in fourth grade, so my grades were okay, but I could have done a lot better. I played the clarinet in fifth grade, and my grades were much better. 

      At Maple Ave, there is a band and an orchestra. In band, you have the woodwind, the brass, and the percussion section. In orchestra, you just have the string section. Why both the band and orchestra are not put together, like a professional orchestra, I do not know. It might because there is no saxophone in a professional orchestra.

    It’s kind of late now to join the band or orchestra, but you could always get lessons outside of school on whatever instrument you want. And if you get good enough, you can try out for jazz band next year, or play in the high school. So give music a try. You never know what you might learn.

Discipline that fits

Just like children outgrow shoes, they also outgrow discipline strategies. Middle graders question authority more than younger children do, and they are growing more independent. How can you enforce limits

for your changing tween? Try these ideas. Give explanations. If your middle grader understands the “why” behind a decision, she’ll be more likely to accept what you say. For example, if she asks to go to a friend’s house, you might say, “Let me call to be sure her mother will be home.” If you end up saying no, explain your reason: “Her mom’s not going to be home. I’m not comfortable with you and Annie being there without a parent.”

Adjust consequences. Set consequences that relate to the problem

and that matter to your child. For example, if she listens to music and ignores her homework, you might put away her MP3 player

for the night. At the same time, try not to overdo it. She’s more apt to cooperate if you don’t set a punishment

that’s out of line with her

behavior (example: two weeks of being grounded for not doing the dishes).

Follow through. You’ve both

agreed that if your child exceeds her television

time, she can’t watch

the next day. She watches an extra show. Instead of lecturing, let the

consequences do the talking. Simply remind her, “No TV tomorrow.” If she argues, help her brainstorm ways she can keep from going over her time limit, like setting an alarm.

 

Web of learning

News and discoveries. Books and stories. Opportunities to write. Where can your child find all of that — and more? In the vast cyberspace that makes up the Internet. Try these ideas to get your child using the computer for more than instant messaging!

Get news flashes. Is your youngster fascinated by tornadoes and blizzards? Is she a basketball fanatic? Have her get regular news feeds that will fuel her interests. For instance, she can receive science updates from www.pbs .org/wgbh/nova/rss or sports news at http://sports.espn.go.com/espn/rss/index. Note: Start by signing up for a free “news reader” at www.google.com/reader or www.newsgator.com.

Download information. Your child can build knowledge and comprehension skills by listening to podcasts (recorded audio programs) on the computer or downloaded to an MP3 player. She’ll find many topics at sites like http://kids.learnoutloud or books to download at www.squidoo.com/child audiobook. She can even create her own podcasts to share with kids around the world at www.kid-cast.com.

Write a blog. Encourage your middle grader to practice writing and reporting by launching a blog. She might post entries about her hobbies, favorite movies, or family activities. Responding to posted comments will help her work on her communication skills. Suggest www.blogger.com or www.wordpress.com for setting up her free blog. Safety note: Monitor your child’s use of the Internet to make sure she visits safe sites and does not give out her name or other identifying information.

 


 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

The Mapletogian

May 2009

Volume 18   Number 9

A strong finish

If your middle grader has spring

fever, she may suddenly realize she

hasn’t prepared for an upcoming

exam or presentation. Let her know

that she can still give it her best

shot. Suggest that she list the steps

needed to get ready. Using her planner,

she can schedule them for the

time she has left.

Family entertainment

Parents and kids can find common

ground with music and TV. When

your child mentions a song he likes,

take time to listen with him. Then,

introduce him to music you enjoyed

at his age. Or watch a family-friendly

reality show together. Each person

can pick a favorite contestant to

follow.

Changing schedules

Summer goes more smoothly if you

start with a plan. Decide ahead of

time what your youngster’s bedtime

and curfew will be once school’s

out. Keep in mind that middle graders

need about nine hours of sleep a

night. You’ll have fewer struggles if

everyone knows what to expect.

Worth quoting

“Winning doesn’t always mean being

first. Winning means you’re doing

better than you’ve ever done before.”

Bonnie Blair

Conference follow-up

After a conference with your child’s teachers, follow up on points raised. You can make a list of goals with your middle grader. Then, check back with teachers in a few weeks. You’ll improve your youngster’s chances for success by keeping track of her progress.

Spring fever

When spring fever hits, the best cure can be to get outside. If your child spends some time enjoying the weather, chances are he’ll focus more on learning when he’s in school. Tip: Encourage your middle grader to free up his weekends for outdoor play by finishing assignments during the week.

The other foot

“You don’t know how it feels to have so much work to do!” Accept your child’s challenge, and switch places for a little while. Read her history textbook and do math problems, while she totals your monthly bills and learns to write checks. The experiment will help each of you understand the other’s responsibilities better.

Worth quoting

“The only true gift is a portion of yourself.”

Ralph Waldo Emerson


Thanking teachers

When my daughter Lisa was in elementary school, we always bought an end-of-year gift for her teacher. This year she has six teachers, so I wasn’t sure what to do.

Lisa had the idea to make something for each one.That way, the gifts would

be personal, and we wouldn’t spend a lot of money. She made a list of possibilities—baking cookies, making a scrapbook of the school year,  writing a funny poem about the class, or creating bookmarks. Then, Lisa decided which gift to make for each teacher. She’s going to give cookies or homemade bookmarks

to most of them. But she chose to make a scrapbook for her English teacher, who gave her extra help

when she was struggling. Lisa is excited, and I know her teachers will feel appreciated.

 

 


Summer learning

Summer vacation gives students a chance to relax and recharge for a new school year. But studies show that

children can lose one to two months’ worth of skills during the break. Luckily, parents can help keep their middle graders learning all summer long with ideas like these.

Read great books

Encourage your child to start on summer reading right away. Library waiting lists for popular books can grow quickly, so have him sign up early for ones he wants to read. If he’s stuck for ideas, he can ask friends what

they’ve enjoyed. Or suggest that he look online at Web sites such as www.book adventure.org or www.bookspot.com for best sellers, reviews, and book clubs.

Explore how things work

Does your youngster know how planes fly? He can find instructions for making paper airplanes at http://science howstuffworks.com. He and a friend might experiment with different designs and then hold a paper airplane contest. For explanations of how things like metal detectors, polarized sunglasses, and fax machines work, have him check out The New Way Things Work by David Macaulay.

Discover your town

Look for unusual, educational places to visit. You might tour a factory that makes interesting products (candy, glass). Find a list at www.factorytoursusa.com, or have your child call local plants to see if they offer tours. You can also ask your local chamber of commerce about historic

sites in your town, such as battlefields and famous birthplaces.

Get organized

By the time they reach the middle years, most kids know which shirt they want to wear to school the next day. Finding it in their room, how ever, can be another story. Try these ways for getting your middle grader organized. She’ll be more pro duc tive and less stressed.

Create habits. Help your child discover new ways to keep things straight. For instance, maybe she can’t find her shirt because she leaves dirty clothes in a heap on the fl oor or doesn’t put away clean clothes. Encourage her to keep a hamper in her room for dirty clothes and to get in the habit of put ting clean clothes away immediately. Once she gets used to new routines, staying organized will be easier.

Plan for tomorrow. Suggest that your child get things in order for the next day. Every night after homework, she can create a checklist of items she needs to take with her (track uniform, glasses, trumpet for band practice). Have her leave the list by her back pack so she can double-check that she has every thing in the morning.

Give a boost. Point out areas where your youngster is naturally organized. Example: “Your crafts table is always in order” or “I like how your CDs are stored.” You could even ask for her help in organizing your own CDs. Building on your child’s strengths can give her confidence to tackle other areas — such as that cluttered closet!


Home alone after school

My son will be too old this fall for the after-school day care we’ve been using. Can he stay home alone until I get off work at 6 p.m.?

It depends on several things. First, check your state’s

laws about when children can be left alone and for

how long.

If your middle grader feels confident and you have

trusted neighbors he can call in an emergency,

you might do a trial run. Make rules about whether friends can visit

and which appliances he may use. Tell him not to answer

the phone or door unless he knows who’s there. And call

periodically to check on him.

If your trial run doesn’t work out or if you or your youngster feels uncomfortable

about his being alone, consider other options. For instance, you might look into afterschool

programs for older children at recreation centers or martial arts schools.