Journal Question # 1: Friendship

Name 3 - 4 qualities you would expect a good friend to have, and then describe a specific friendship you have. What exactly creates the connection between you, and why do you feel comfortable with this particular person?

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Journal Question # 2: Individuality

As do most teenagers, John Conlon puts a lot of effort into expressing his individuality to his parents, teachers and peers. He wants to be accepted for who he is, not what others want him to be. How do you express your individuality and why is it so important to stand out from the crowd? Think of the music you listen to, your appearance (your hair, clothes, jewelry) and your hobbies.

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Journal Question # 3: Adolescence

Adolescence is a time of self-discovery and increasing independence from adults. Teens form close friendships with peers and enjoy more freedom than they had previously. Along with these privileges come added pressure and responsibility. Discuss some of these issues and explain how you have dealt with them.

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Journal Question # 4: Parents

John and Lorraine feel unconnected to their parents, each of which seem isolated and aloof from their offspring. Explain your relationship with your parents, and show how they are supportive and a positive influence, as well as some of the negative aspects, if applicable. Are there ways in which you and your parents fail to connect?

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Journal Question # 5: Mortality

On page 56, John ponders the idea of mortality. Logically we all know that we will die some day. Typically, however, humans like to ignore the idea, but the fact is that death is inevitable. Read over John's comments on pages 55 and 56, and respond by giving your own thoughts on death. You may want to discuss a death you have experienced such as that of a relative or friend, or you may just write about death in general.

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Journal Question # 6: Influencial Adult

Among the many adults adolescents come in contact with, one or two usually come to mind as having an extraordinary influence. John and Lorraine are influenced by Mr. Pignati because he treats them as equals, accepts them for who they are, and truly enjoys their company. Choose one adult who has had a profound influence on you and explain how they have affected you. Target some of the positive qualities this person has. You could choose a relative, coach, teacher, or even older friend.

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Journal Question # 7: Home vs. House

Both John and Lorraine don't feel particularly comfortable in their own houses. John feels as if he is an unwelcome addition, and Lorraine cannot get her mother to see her as a real person. What are the qualities of a home? As the old saying goes, "A house is not a home." You may want to discuss how well your house meets the qualities of a home, and where you feel most at home.

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Journal Question # 8: Future

Lorraine aspires to be a writer, and John an actor. John's father wants him to follow in his own footsteps and go into stock trading, but John resists this vehemently. Traditionally, children followed the career paths of their parents, but this seems no longer to be true. In our modern era, there is a huge variety of career choices. What do you see yourself doing 15 years from now? What career areas interest you the most?

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